Help me out guys.
I've been friends with this guy (let's call him X) since 2002. Actually, we used to be classmates. We almost never spoke to each other. But in 2005 we went to the same Uni and we grew closer. In the beginning we were jsut friends, but for the past year we were something more. We suddenly started going out together to the cinema, ice-skating, cycling etc. I realised that I wanted to be with him, but I was confused whether he treats me as an old friend or also something more.
But recently, after we went to the cinema, I drove X to his flat, and he said that 'for our next DATE he would pick me up'. So he considers them dates. Cool. But why the hell, would he be telling me few days later about this girl from uni whom he fancies? I guess it's this reverse thing, where I should scream 'Nooo, you're mine!' and then kiss him. But it made me angry, so I just pretended as if I didn't care and basically told him 'good luck'.
Since then we met a few times, no mention of the other girl.
We went out for a dinner with my friends who had never met him, and one of them later told me that he's totally into me.
Later X asked me about my plans for New Year's Eve, to which I said that I was going to a house party. I asked him if he wanted to be my +1 and he said yes. But few days later he calls and tells me that his friends are throwing a party so he'd be going there. Which made me even more confused, because if you fancy someone, you don't cancel your date with them (unless you have a really good excuse).
So, I thought then that he sees only a friend in me, until a msn convo from a few minutes ago, in which he wrote "You're the one I want- O. Newton". So he's either playing with me, or just as insecure about this whole thing as I am.
I've decided that I'm not going to call him until he calls me first, but I need to do something about it, cause I'm tired of this constant playing.